You can, also, empathize with how she’s feeling by saying something like, “I have noticed that you are frustrated with, what can I do to help?” Then find a way to turn every negative comment into a problem that can be fixed with a solution ( because, truthfully, every problem has a solution).If you can’t think of two, verbally hit her back with at least one positive. Second, you know how when we call parents or are in IEP meetings, we do the positive-negative-positive sandwich? Time to use that here too… for every negative comment Negative Nancy spews, try and fill the conversation with two positives. Truthfully, rude and ignorant people need kindness the most. Stop letting your finances, relationships, career, and life suffer because of your constant cycles of worry, fear, and negativity.To start out, kill the negative teacher with kindness, “even if you are doing it through gritted teeth” and a fake smile. You can transform your life without ending up being one of those people you always side eye-well, except for that one weird trick I mentioned above.Īnd instead of making you feel like you're in an intervention led by some geriatric tightwad with a clipboard and a pencil behind his ear, this sometimes blunt, sarcastic, in-your-face book proves that self-help can be fun and entertaining. It's full of simple, easy to use tips that can be easily integrated into your everyday life. If you're tired of the same hippie mumbo jumbo advice from the same dry, boring self-help books, and you don't want to have to completely turn your life upside down in order to.well, turn your life upside down, then this book is for you. This is not your grandmother's self-help book. Three things you need to do every day to become a more positive person.What babies can teach us about managing stress.The one tool you can get for $1 that you can use every day and take with you everywhere to ease your worry, stress, and anxiety.What you can do every night in bed to eliminate worry (no, not that).The quick one-minute method you can do anytime, anywhere to ease your stress and get you out of your head.The lie you're telling yourself daily that's not getting you any closer to not being a total stressball.The weird relaxation technique that may make you catch the side eye from onlookers, but will decrease stress and distract you from the chaos inside your head.The most important thing you need to eliminate from your life to be more positive.Why you're biologically wired to mentally screw yourself over and what you can do about it.Or maybe you're lucky enough to have a cocktail of all four-negativity, worry, stress, and fear-ruining your life by keeping you stuck in rut and holding you back from being your best self. Or maybe you're held back by fear, and can't seem to get your life together. You're so stressed out that you can't seem to get anything done. You're constantly worried that the sky is falling. If you're like most people, you're probably constantly harassed by a negative voice in your head, always telling you that you're not good enough, fast enough, smart enough, skinny enough, anything enough, and that your life will never be better than it is right now. Minus the muttering mantras under your breath and flowers in your hair. Screw them, right? No, you can become them. Everything works out for them, and everywhere they go, they're constantly followed by sunshine and rainbows and cupcakes with sprinkles. Some people seem to just be naturally positive and optimistic. Tired of being a worrywart? A negative Nancy? A complaining Cathy? We've all been there-well, most of us at least. Are you tired of being held back by the negative voice inside your head?
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